Arguments for:
1.ppl will not change so sudden....(ud'u ila sabili rabbika bil hikmah)
2.they will change but just for a moment and without self-realization
3.not all people are open minded and can absorb good message in a straight forward advice
Arguments against:
1.i should be myself
2.it reflect that u are a bad liar
3.it works for open minded ppl
4.some ppl prefer open conversation that closed one
conclusion:
i should not stop being a straight forward person with a limit to certain group of ppl and situation.
